Can
your words make a difference in your children's lives? The answer is “Yes!” You are the most influential person to them,
the one with the most pull, the one whom they look to for guidance. Our words can either lift them up or tear
them down. Try it on yourself in the
mirror; do you smile at yourself, or do you frown when you say “I love
you”?
Children
feel the same as adults do when we hear positive and encouraging words;
however, children are more open about their feelings. When we are praised, we sometimes deflect
it. When children are praised, they
often light up. Do your children light
up when you talk to them? Try at least
four times a day to say something positive to your child. You might have to work at this if you haven’t
made a habit of lifting up your child, but it is very much worth the
effort! If you have to schedule it, then
do so until it becomes a habit. For
example, try speaking a positive phrase when they wake up, before they leave
for school, when they come home from school, and before they go to bed. Hopefully, it will soon become second nature. In turn, they will learn the blessing of
speaking kindly to others.
Maybe
you think you need some help, or that you can’t think of anything positive or
encouraging to say. The following list
is just a fraction of things to say.
Start with these, and then come up with some of your own. One of the best verses about this habit is
found in Proverbs 31:26
“She openeth her mouth with wisdom;
and in her tongue is the law of kindness.”
1. I love you very much!
2. I’m so glad you’re my child!
3. If I could pick anyone
to be mine, it would be you.
4. I forgive you; it will
be okay.
5. I’m sorry. Parents make mistakes, too.
6. You did a great job!
7. You did your best, and
I’m so proud of you.
8. I prayed for you to make
good choices, and you did.
9. Your smile is wonderful!
10.
I
like spending time with you.
11. It’s hard to do the right thing, but you did
it. Good for you!
12. You handled that really well.
13. Thank you for putting others first.
14. I see improvement in ( an area they are
struggling with).
15. It’s okay to make mistakes. Just learn from them. I still love you.
Be
an uplifter of your children, and see the rewards from it!
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