You can't "follow" someone if you aren't moving.
"I press toward the mark for the prize of the high calling of God in Christ Jesus." Philippians 3:14
The word press here is to simply move. When water stops moving, it turns stagnant. When you aren't moving in your relationship with Christ, you are turning into a stagnant Christian. Who are the ones that complain in your church? The ones SITTING in the pew?
Read your Bible...ask your pastor what you can do to serve in your church...share Christ with others...join a Sunday School class or Bible Class. Always be taking steps in your Christian life!
You have a high calling - step up and follow! How do I do that? Take a step and move!